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Playscapes LIVE: Episode 3

8/8 9:00-12:00 (And then the real fun begins)

A virtual play event for the coveted members of our VIP community of freaks.
To combat isolation and support our fellow members of the sex positive community we’ve put together an event that will feature donation based performances and interactive group play.

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It’s been a while...we’re ready to serve you d

It’s been a while...we’re ready to serve you digitally once again 😈 mark your calendars! 🗓 The next Playscapes LIVE is 8/8 from 9-12 ⏰ If you’d like to perform please DM us! BIPOC to the front!!!
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ANOTHER BIRTHDAY 🥳 ⛓ This time we’re celebr

ANOTHER BIRTHDAY 🥳 ⛓
This time we’re celebrating the other host with the most: Shay! 🎂 What a miraculous year this has been for them, and some of their most precious memories 💭 have been of the incredible moments we’ve all shared together at Playscapes 💕 Shay’s goal was to hit 1000 followers by their birthday and with your help we are OVER at 1020! 🤯 Thank you everyone for your continued support in making this little journey so fulfilling! ❤️
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Corona Crap ⛓ I'm sure it's on your mind..."do I

Corona Crap
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I'm sure it's on your mind..."do I want to go to a play party with all this chaos going on?" We're right there with you. We're going to be completely transparent with you: we don't know what to do. We just want everyone to be safe. ⛓
WHAT WE'RE DOING: ⛓
We will be cancelling both our 3/16 Mix and Mingle and our 3/21 play event. We're giving full refunds to all ticket holders and hope to see you at future events when all this chaos is over. For now, we don't have a future event date booked, we want to be sure of everyone's safety before we come back. One of the pillars of sex positivity is safety. We care more about the health of all of our VIP members than we do about one party. You're all the reason we do what we do and it would have devastated us if we were the cause of even one person contracting this illness. ⛓
WHAT WE HOPE FOR YOU: ⛓
We hope you're taking care of yourselves. If you have the option to work from home now is the time to exercise that privilege. Avoid using public transportation (including Uber) whenever possible. Take time to exercise by walking or riding a bike whenever possible if you must travel. We hope you're washing your hands billions of times every single day. Use this terrible circumstance we've found the world in to implement this practice in your life for years to come. Finally, we hope you stay engaged with your community, here and wherever else you find a sense of home. This has the potential to be a very isolating time for all of us and we're here for you at all times. Just reach out and we're happy to be there to make it all a little less scary. ⛓
We will hopefully see you all very soon and are wishing you nothing but health and loving vibes. Thanks for your commitment to our ever growing community of freaks. We adore each and every one of you. ⛓
All our love,
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Shay and Ross
Playscapes NYC
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Open love...a divine concept, yes? But it’s not

Open love...a divine concept, yes? But it’s not without challenges. There’s a lot of hard self work that goes into non monogamy.
No matter how many blogs, articles or books you read nothing is going to touch on the unique specifics of your relationships. Whether your in an open relationship, polyamorous or single and non monogamous you have to have the emotional toolbox to tackle these challenges.

We at Playscapes believe that starts with community. We’re all in this together, right? It’s important to have others to lean on during times of crisis. That’s a big part of what we’ve been creating in the past (almost) year.
Feeling lost and alone in your ethically non monogamous journey? Our mixers are an excellent place to start. We bring together some of the best folks in New York (and DC, Connecticut, and Philly) for a little get to know ya evening. We know many VIP members that have met partners, play partners, and platonic partners at these events...we wish the same for you.
Join us Monday 3/16 for the Playscapes: Mix and Mingle to find your perfect fit into our community of freaks. We’ve got a consent workshop at 8:30 followed by an awesome party leading up to a raffle for sex toys and more at 11. We’ll be hanging out from 8-12 and it’s $10 at the door. See you soon!
#mixer #ethicallynonmonogamous #poly #polyam #polyamorous #polyamorousrelationship #community #leanonme #partner #openrelationship #openrelationships

A big ol’ HAPPY BIRTHDAY to Daddy...ahem I mean

The biggest part of sex, in our eyes, is communica

The biggest part of sex, in our eyes, is communication! 💬 It's the groundwork of consent. In the world of open relationships, relationship anarchy, polyamory, or however you define your ethical non-monogamy...it's essential for any kind of relationship health. 🩹 This means partners, play partners, hook ups, etc. At Playscapes, we've explored tons of relationship tactics. Our favorite experience at our parties thus far was an orgy that began by everyone sitting in a circle and describing their boundaries and intentions. 👯‍♀️👯👯‍♂️ Then we took turns touching one person at a time in the circle before progressing play, asking every step of the way. 🗣 This is just one example of how you can up your ethical play party game! What was most heartwarming is at the next party we saw a circle of VIPs exercising this method for themselves. 🥰⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀
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Other ways to practice consent communication include asking before you touch/hug/engage with someone at an event (play or non-play). 🤗 It's important to remember you always ask prior to making any kind of advancement. Don't grab someone's hand and after ask, "Is this okay?" Use direct statements at all times: "Is it okay if I hold your hand?" 🤝 This gives everyone the opportunity to advocate for themselves in the moment and keeps us all at the same ethical standard. ✨⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀
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Outside of parties communication is crucial as well. When we hit an "ouch" in our relationship we like to write a well thought out letter to the other that we'll read out loud at a later discussion. 📄 We send it prior to the discussion to allow time to think deliberately about a response and in many cases we write a letter of our own. ✏️ Sometimes this process takes 15 minutes. Other times, this can mean hours of hard work and dedication. ⏱ It's this time that re-solidifies our bond and brings us back to the foundation we need to be healthy partners for other people. 💋⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀
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What communication tactics do you use with your partners to keep yourselves happy and healthy? ☺

Tomorrow night is THE NIGHT! 🗓 Limited tickets

Tomorrow night is THE NIGHT! 🗓 Limited tickets are still available for this event...and you don’t want to miss it. 🎟 We have DJ @thewillywompa spinning for us, a special aerial performance by @pixi_stix and shibari by @ropedaddynyc for you all to devour! 🤯 We’ve missed each and every one of you these past few months so we’re coming back this New Year stronger than ever 🎆 See you all at Playscapes: New Year, Do Me tomorrow from 9-4! 👏 ⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀
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Tonight's the night! Pull out your favorite cockta

Tonight's the night! Pull out your favorite cocktail dress or blazer because you're gunna wanna look sharp for tonights mix and mingle event! Remember this event is open to the public and we have a consent workshop at 8:30 for newbies that want to scratch that off their "to do" before the big event coming up on January 4th! ⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀
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ONE WEEK! We’re...getting...so...close...to havi

ONE WEEK! We’re...getting...so...close...to having you all at our house of debauchery once again 😈 our MIX AND MINGLE is coming up next Monday from 8-12 at The Deep End in BK! 🥂 Come by for good vibes, a drink or two, awesome sex positive folks, and raffles 🎟 if you’re lucky you might even win a FREE TICKET to our next play party on 1/4/20 🍀 We will ALSO have a consent workshop for newbies at 8:30...See you soon! ⛓
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#lingerie #sexpositive #bodypositive #mixer #mixandmingle #nightlife #monday #playscapesnyc #consentismandatory #consent #nonmonogamy #enm #ethicalnonmonogamy #consensualnonmonogamy #cnm #poly #polyamory #brooklyn #nyc #events

This week’s topic: SLUT SHAMING! 🚫 Something

This week’s topic: SLUT SHAMING! 🚫 Something nearly all of us in the sex positive community has experienced. 👎 Some of us are still experiencing, even within the world of the sex pos culture. 🙀 But why slut shame someone when you’re physically at a play party...shouldn’t we all be embracing our inner sluts? 💥
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Reasons to NOT slut shame:
1️⃣ It doesn’t make you look pretty
2️⃣ You’ll get suspended from Playscapes #sorrynotsorry
3️⃣ It hurts peoples feelings
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Reasons to slut PRAISE:
1️⃣ Learn from someone else’s saucy experiences
2️⃣ Celebrate everyone’s inner slut...possibly with cake or confetti!
3️⃣ Make a new friend instead ⛓
Being nice goes a long way. 🤝 Everyone is entitled to act with their body as they see fit...with consent of course! 🤗 It’s #yourbodyyourchoice so make your choices count...whatever they may be. 💯 We, here at Playscapes, support you and all your slutty endeavors. 👏
To our beloved VIPs fallen victim to this harassment now or ever, we love you. We see you. We stand by you. ❤️
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#slutshaming #yourbodyyourchoice #yourbodyyourbusiness #mybodymychoice #sexpositive #sexpositivity #playscapesnyc #consent #consentismandatory #booty #butt #undies #doggy #instagood #igdaily #instagram #polyamory #nonmonogamy #bodypositive #power #playparty #sexy #confidence #love #lust #brooklyn #newyork #nyc #ethicalnonmonogamy #consent

❗️TAG SOMEONE❗️ with a booty worthy of WOR

❗️TAG SOMEONE❗️ with a booty worthy of WORSHIP! 🙏
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Missed us? Sorry to be such a tease...we're just t

Missed us? Sorry to be such a tease...we're just taking our sweet time to give you every pleasure you deserve at our next event. Don't worry, we'll be back before you know it...and when we are you wont be able to handle what's in store. Trust us, it'll be worth the wait.⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀
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What. A. Night! 🎟 We could hardly sleep last ni

What. A. Night! 🎟 We could hardly sleep last night thinking about all the adventures we had 😈 Our biggest party yet with over 100 guests! 😱 We had so many new and beautiful VIPs we loved getting to know 🏆 Welcome to our community of freaks 🤪 The feedback we’ve gotten so far has been phenomenal 👏🏻 Overall a giant success...but we know it couldn’t have been a success without YOU! 😻 Thank you all for making Saturday such a special night ❤️
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Here’s a super fun fact about our 🥂 mixer 🍻 coming up Monday 9/30 from 8-midnight: this stunner will be working the door and greet you all with a killer smile 👄 just you wait, we’ll have him and two other dreamy guys wanting to help you “enter” our community 👅 remember our mix and mingle events are open to everyone (not just VIPs) 🤩 they are also PG-13 so get some digits and start planning a date for the Saturday VIP play party event 👏🏻 if you’re not yet a VIP this is your first chance to catch the mandatory consent workshop for newbies at 9pm 😊 DM us for more details!
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This week’s post is a shoutout to all our amazin

This week’s post is a shoutout to all our amazing volunteers! (A few featured here) 👏🏻 They are the heart and soul 💗 that makes the magic happen ✨They do everything from set up 🧱 to breakdown 🧨 They’re the trusted guardians you can go to with any/all concerns 😇 They are the friendly faces at greet you at the door with a smile 😺 We couldn’t do it without you...thanks loves! 💋
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Tickets are 🎟LIVE🎟 for our 10/5 play party f

Tickets are 🎟LIVE🎟 for our 10/5 play party for all our lovely vetted VIPs...and wow these tickets are already takin off! ✈️ snag the early birdies before they’re all gone 🐣
Special announcement! 🔊 Our mixer has just been announced: 9/30 from 8-midnight! 🥂 For details DM is, this event is open to all and we welcome anyone interested in getting their feet (or anything else) 💦 a little wet 💦 at this fun mix and mingle. This event is PG-13 and there will be a consent workshop at 9:00 the night of the mixer, and 9:30 the night of the play event 10/5 👏🏻
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Monumental moment for Playscapes...we just hit 500

Monumental moment for Playscapes...we just hit 500 followers! 👏🏻 Thank you to everyone who keeps this community freaky and weird 🙃 Did you hear the exciting news for you all?? 🤔 If you’re a vetted VIP you can get a 💸 FREE TICKET 🎫 to our 10/5 play event if you watch this week’s IG Story everyday! 👀 All you have to do is be the first to answer correctly when the ticket quiz is launched and you’ll be our lucky winner! 📝 Best of luck!! 🍀
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Holy moly Saturday was such a hit 💥 (pun intend

Holy moly Saturday was such a hit 💥 (pun intended) 🤪 There was a huge turnout really last minute, which was a big challenge vetting-wise...so many new faces so quickly! But we’re committed to this process and bringing the best and most ethical guests to our community. 🥰 The crowd was so enthusiastic! 🥳 Our burlesque performer told us it was one of the most interactive audiences she’d ever come across from a play party...so thanks everyone for the great vibes! 👏🏻 We’re honestly still reeling from what a success the evening was...we just can’t put it into words how happy you’ve all made us knowing you all had a great time. ❤️ Next event announcement coming at you very very 🔜
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